What is a BDSM Safe Word?

If you’re new to the kink or BDSM scene, you may not be familiar with the term “safe word”. But for those who are, it’s an important part of sex that can help ensure everything is safe and sane.

A BDSM safe word is a verbal signal that allows people to quickly tell their partner that they want to stop sex or slow down. It’s usually a short, one-word phrase that is used when the submissive feels like they’re in danger or aren’t enjoying themselves.

It’s best to choose a safe word that you can remember easily and say with confidence. Also, it’s important to pick something that isn’t too long or complicated so it’s easy for your partner to hear and understand what you’re saying.

How to use BDSM safe word?

You can use a safe word in any situation, whether it’s in the bedroom, at an event or dungeon, or anywhere else that requires a quick and clear way of alerting your partner to what you need. But it’s also important to be clear on what your word means and to practice using it so that you can use it with ease in the future.

There are a number of different words and phrases that can be used as safe words during sex, including colors, fruits and a mythical creature. According to Lovehoney, the adult sex toy company in Australia, the most common words are “red,” “pineapple,” and “banana.”

When choosing a safe word, it’s important to think about what you want to convey during your sex with a particular person. It’s also a good idea to pick a word that will make your partner happy and not turn them off.

Signal that you want to stop the sex.

For example, if you’re with someone who is into rape fantasies, you might say the safe word “angel” or “angela” to signal that you want to stop the sex. It’s also an excellent option for people who are in pain or feel unsafe during a sex session, because you can let your partner know that you need some time to calm down and recover from the experience.

Other popular words include “sea cucumber” and “Kelly Clarkson.” While these might sound like a little much, they’re actually just a fun way to communicate your safety during sex.

Some people prefer to use a physical cue as their safe word, such as waving their hand or shaking their head. These can be an effective way to signal that you’re ready to stop sex or slow down. But if you do use a physical cue, be sure to discuss it with your partner ahead of time so that they’re aware of what the cue means and how to respond.